Last night I freaked out. It was a silent freak out. Not noticed by anyone else except my husband. In all my 46 years I have never KNOWN 2 homosexuals AND SEEN THEM KISS, on the lips, in public. Yes, that's what freaked me out. I know those two kids. They are nice. They helped me at the high school last week! I mean, I suspected about one of them, but always give them the benefit of the doubt. But it was confirmed, right in front of me last night. This is getting a little too close and personal for me! I purposely avoid any kind of media involving this behavior. Avoid events where they hang out. I shelter myself. Why? Because in God's Word it tells me to - Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things. Phil. 4:8
Just about the time I had convinced myself my children were in the best possible public school, there are a couple of fights in bathrooms and someone ends up in the hospital. Then witnessing the two guys kiss (in the audience) at a swine week fundraiser in a church auditorium- ! - just about put me over the edge.
Can you guess what my prayers will be focused on this week?
6 comments:
Oh dear. I feel sick. This is horrible news. I'm sheltered and glad of it too.
I think this is becomming a bigger problem. I also think instead of attacking it head on the church ignores it, it's a hard situation because to me the Bible states this is clearly wrong, but as Christians how to you handle this situation, where the people often still believe in God, love God, and think God just wants them to be happy. I would like to see more lessons, classes, and seminars on this subject so we can help people in this sin.
I know Michelle, I tend to ignore it myself. I will not change the way I treat these two boys. But I also do not feel like it is my place to confront them about it. If they showed up at church or ever asked me a question about it, I would tell them what the Bible says and also that they can be forgiven.
That's such a tricky, tricky situation. I will just pray for you to be the kind of light you need to be (and always are) and that it's received with an open heart(s). Just treating those boys with love will speak volumes!
Sadly, it's being "glorified" in in entertainment (songs/movies/tv shows) to the kids and adults. It's (from what others who teach in bigger schools have told me) thought of as "cool" by some. Sadly it's here in our itty bitty town, though not to that extent. I saw that same thing in a little restaurant in a nearby town. Couldn't believe it and was so thankful that none of the older people sitting nearby saw it. Even more thankful that my youngest child who was with me didn't see it!
It is very hard to face and talk about. I would certainly rather ignore it and stay sheltered than have to face it, but I'm afraid it's going to just keep coming face to face with us, whether we want it to or not.
When I read the Bible, it's clear to me that it's wrong/sinful. Yes, He is a loving God, but He also hates sin. But some people (even Christians) believe that it's just a chemical imbalance. Amazing, but true.....and very sad...
I've had 2 families come in since Jan. to enroll kids with 2 mommies. I don't figure it out right away all the time. I usually figure it out when I'm entering the students in the computer and they have listed a relationship as step-parent or 2 say they are mommies. So far the state only allows who's on the birth certificate to enroll a student. I try very hard to treat everyone the same way, I know that is what God would want me to do, but it isn't easy. I try to concentrate on what is best for the child.
On a seperate note, did you let your boys attend an 8th grade program, provided by the public school called "On your Way". It covers topics such as sexting, relationships an Exercise/nutrition. Will's since teacher said that the images were to graphic on the video. The program is tomorrow, if you comment on your blog about this would you also send me an email or call me. I might not have time to check back here today. I've got a lot going tonight.
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